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Becoming Dead

“I was born genius, education ruined me”. Many times I thought about these wordings, why people say like this. I still believe it is not because of education, but of the situation, where our knowledge placed us. When I was doing my school and college, all of my colleagues, friends and teachers wish me “you will become high position.” But I knew my fate, when I was studying 11th. From that day itself, whoever wishes good things to me, it reflects just opposite or it would be disgrace to me. Many incidents happened and it still continues. It is the fifth job in my career life. I feel, it will give me best / break. Yes, it given many good things and bad things too. I got some good friends, even I can say, got a best friend after coming to this customer place. But the breakings started from the customer side. There is an operation head in the organization, which makes people dead and makes them in his control to work. He is the all in the entire branch and he wanted to put his head in ever...

Educated Prostitutes

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Three months back, when Fidel Castro made the statement, " atleast we had well educated prostitutes in the country", I just think about it. As a leader of the country, he made the statement loudly, how many leaders can say this? All are trying to hide the list of crime in their countries, but he doesn't have anything, but said the truth. Everywhere in the world, you can see prostitutes and prostitution. In general considerations, prostitutions are mostly happening in poor countries. Is it true? No. If yes, then they are doing it for their progress of life or to feed their childrens at least a time. But in rich countries, it is doing only for their satisfaction or time pass. Moreover, the prostitutes in the rich countries are adopted from the poor countries, may be for the above stated reasons. Who are prostitutes? Definition of prostitute says: Women, who hires herself or is hired to men for sexual intercourse are called Prostitutes. Why the name prostitute is giving to ...

Blog for Job

Is this somewhat interesting, right? Yeah. But who will get the job? All the bloggers are enjoying one or another job. Then who is the right person for the job? Now, the bigh IT companies are already started to find the new employees, by checking the blogs. If you are a good blogger, then you have a chance to get into companies like Microsoft, Infosys etc. The more internet utilization is done by software engineers. They are the internet savvys, especially in chatting and to find out new things from the net. Because, all the software engineers are now focusing for a particular subject, Hacking. If they can be a successful hacker, then they can be a successful programmer. Both are much related. Because of this, and due to the fie transfer facilities of messengers, which is carring viruses and pron to attacks, most of the companies already blocked the port of the messengers. However, the harmless web messenger like meebo is most popular in these gangs. The world without i...

My Friend

Note: The character is alive and is real. This article is only to analyze yourself. I met her in 2003 thru internet community. It was a question about her upcoming exam and my reply to her, started our relationship. I told her to inform me about the exam. She passed it with a good percentage and become a certified professional like me. She is a brilliant girl, let me call her as Neelima, and has an intention to acheive her goals. Days passed and our communication gone out the community and started telephonic. She just finished B.E in Computer, with high grade and completed this valuable certification and was desperately trying for a job in the networking feild. Since I am related to that field, our relationship grown day by day. That time, I didn't have cell phone and she used to call on my room-mate's cell. Whenever she attended an interview, that night we discussed about the interview thru phone. Her consulting, clearing the doubt and the leaning point was me. since she is a ...

Friendship Day - Some Thoughts

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What do you mean by a friend? It can be defined in many ways. That is depends on person by person. But a friend is a aperson who helps you in your all needs and understand you well. A true friend never expect anything returns. Friends are always with us in all situations. Why do we need a friend? We have parents to be loved. We have relatives, brothers, sisters and so on to be loved. Then what is the role of a friend in life? The basic of friendshop resides in love. And this basic is starting from our own home only. As we growing we are seeing, learning, understanding many things. The understand creats many doubts. All our doubts can't be cleared by our parents, brother or sisters etc. And some time, we can't talk openly all things/matters to them also. Such kind of situationis, the importance of a friend is comes up. A good friend uderstands you and clear your doubts and guide you in a right direction. Can a friend be a lover or vice versa? The answer is many or may not be. B...

White coated Devil

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I met a guy, who is looks like me and by character itself, I feels, almost like me. That was a surprising thing, which I ever faced in the life. When we talked about many things, I found he has something wrong in the mind. Yes, it is true. Like me, he never use to drink alcohol, smoking, pan eating and other immortal activities. All his friends are loving him, and he is more affectionate with girls than boys. Some of his boy friends are envy to him that, he has a collection of girls in his custody, across the world. He has 2 best friends, some flirting friends and quiet a few friends in custody. Like me, he never forget those who meets him or walks with him for a while. He loves his parents much and it is hurting to him, if some one leaves him, without reason or suddenly. He has a great mind for forgetting everything, but never forget anything. When he was talking all these to me, I smelled and remembered, once a man told me, nobody is perfect in this world. All having at least a probl...

One bedroom flat -- Worth to read

Not very long but very touching and TRUE ???? Please read......... ONE BEDROOM FLAT... A TYPICAL MIDDLE CLASS INDIAN SOFTWARE ENGINEER'S LIFE... - A Bitter Reality As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineer and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true. Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about. Five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India. My father was a government employee and after his retirement, the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat. I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exc...

Da Vinci Code -- 20 Questions answered.

What is common with the two movies 'Tickle my funny bone' (indian film of a lustfull Nun) and 'DaVinci Code'? One is about the fornication of the flesh, the other the fornication of the Word of God. Before I share with you information I got from a website with regards to DaVinci Code, I like to let you know something. I asked the Lord why He is allowing this to happen, and he gave me this scripture. Philippians 1:12,14 12Now I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel. 14Because of my chains, most of the brothers in the Lord have been encouraged to speak the word of God more courageously and fearlessly. So do look as how to ban the movie but how to preach the true Gospel fearlessly to all people. Look at this as an opportunity and share the Word of God with every one. People take part in email chains, hoping that some luck begets them. If you pass this to your friends and aquatints no luck will beget you, but surel...

Wedding on phone

Yeah. The technology has such a good side for you. All celebrities are trying different kind of wedding ceremoney and their baby delivery, but it happened not in a celebrity wedding, not in U. S., London or other foreign countries. But it happened in India, that is also for a Muslim's marriage. So, they found a place in the history of marriage. The situation was different for them. The full article you can read it from reuters . When they decided to marry and their parents fixed it, there was no problem. They got a good time from their preist. As the day came, there was riot, and a clash of Hindu-Muslim, that is in Vadodara, formerly known as Baroda. Curfew declared, everywhere fulled with militaries and police. Nobody can go out for such kind of ceremony. They wanted to marry on the date and time. So, they decided to use the technology. As the bride and groom, met before this riot ( wah, at least they could do that), their relatives discussed each other. Finall...

Railway making profit under Laloo

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Indian railway made a remarkable profit under the administration of Mr. Laloo Prasad Yadav, the Union Railway Minister of India. This impressive achievement made some research firms and students to do a study material. But, as analysing this, or backtracking, how they made these kind of profit? The profit making run of railway makes the public in a big trouble. There was a good time to the people, in the name of service, when Nitish Kumar was the railway minister. He introduced the "Tatkal scheme", for the emergency ticket reservation, with the confirmation of seats. Those who are providing the proof of identity with some fixed amount more than the normal charges, can occupy a reservation, a day prior to the date of journey. And these kind of "Tatkal people" have special coach, and the official make sure that no other persons are allowed to travel in that coach. This increased more security. But the new minister, Mr. Laloo, taken out these schemes, but kept the name...

Job Reservation

I think we should have job reservations in all the fields. I completely support the PM and all the politicians for promoting this. Let's start the reservation with our cricket team. We should have 10 percent reservation for muslims. 30 percent for OBC, SC/ST like that. Cricket rules should be modified accordingly. The boundary circle should be reduced for an SC/ST player. The four hit by an OBC player should be considered as a six and a six hit by a OBC player should be counted as 8 runs. An OBC player scoring 60 runs should be declared as a century. We should influence ICC and make rules so that the pace bowlers like Shoaib Akhtar should not bowl fast balls to our OBC player. Bowlers should bowl maximum speed of 80 kilometer per hour to an OBC player. Any delivery above this speed should be made illegal. Also we should have reservation in Olympics. In the 100 meters race, an OBC player should be given a gold medal if he runs 80 meters. There can be reservation in Go...

Feeling secure ?

I recently had a conversation with one of my friends' family. They are from Kerala -- God's own country -- a state of India, and is living now in India's financial capital, Mumbai, of their own flat. Both are professional and have two kids. While on discussion with current affairs and other matters, the conversation turned to the security of the present life. Once, on their annual visit to their home village, they went to some other place and was returning to their home. It was too late and is normal at villages, people were sleeping near around 9:30 pm. Only street lights there. They got a last bus to their village, unfortunately, they didn't have any idea, the bus would be upto which place. On its last service, at it last point, the bus people told them, its service upto here and you can carry on with any other taxi vehicles. It was almost 15 min. journey from that stop. They don't know what to do or how to go? No sign of taxi vehicles at road. They spent alm...

Importance of Mathematics

Mathematics is an interesting subject and is must for the life on the way of growth. Without mathematics, we can say life is a big "zero". But, is it a wise decision to give sports more importance than mathematics at school level ? Now, governments are thinking about this. Since, number of failing students in the mathematics is going higher in each year, they are thinking about the reduction of this "burden". From VIIIth standard, they are trying to make Maths as optional subject. There was a day, when people are not interested to make money. They were ready to be as what they were. They were happy too. As, the human thinking level is going high, new inventions came. People are intended to catch up these new life, but money becomes obstacle. So, the need for high level education becomes must to achieve this. Now, eveywhere a trend is, parents want their children is either a doctor or engineer. This technical life must need Mathematics. Re...

Thinking about you.............

Every bachelor has a concept about their future wife. At present, everyone, near about 90% of them would like to have a girl-friend relation and later flirt them and would like to start a married a life with somebody else. But, I strongly believe that if I have a girl friend (of other's concept), I will take her as my life partner. All of my friends' usuallly says, you are a lucky man. What they means, I have a big list of girls as my friends. But none of them hasn't read my mind (some exceptions). I believe, by the grace of God, I will marry a girl after two years. The right to select a girl for me is with my parents. I will never try to take it out from them. But they knows, in this case, my decision is ultimate. From the midst of teenage, when I understood about the future, I made a concept of my future wife in mind. But in my case, whatever I think, will never happen. I will address my conceptual wife as she / her in the forthcoming sentences. She will be from central t...

US Based Companies

In India, everywhere, people would like to talk about the abroad activities. In Mumbai, they have only two things to talk, one is share market position, other about the Cricket match. The high popularity of MNC's are the target of youngsters now. All are looking only IT related jobs. They don't want to go for other jobs. Recently, I had a talk with one of my classmate, who is in an IT company in Kerala. I asked, where were you working? He said a MNC, named Mattek. I told him, whenever you are telling to others, just tell them as a Java programmer, I am in a small company now. He said, what is the problem with my company. I told, this company may have an office at U. S., but it is not a MNC. Have you heard about Mastek, I asked. He said no. I told, all mallu's are doing this. They will change a letter of a MNC and will establish a company and for the attraction of malayalee's they will announce it is a MNC. You know, anybody can open an office at U. S...

A Conversation

That was a beautiful evening. I left the office on time. While going to the station, one lady was asking to the taxi guy from a wrong place to her destination. I am also walking to the same place. Taxi driver says, no. To the lady I said: It's only walking distance. I am to the same station, you will get a good company, if you are accompanying me. Lady: What type of company, if I am coming? Anytype. You can consider anything. Lady: Ok, I will. By-the-way, what is your name? Lady: Why you want to know? I have a bad habit. If I met somebody, and had a word, I will never forget them and will try to keep in touch. If I meet you in future, I can call you by name. Or I will call you with some nickname, and you won't like it. Lady: Call me as Aleena. What's yours? You won't bothered about me and won't remember. Then, why you need my name ? Lady: Just for information. Then, here is the easy forgetable name: Shibin. Lady: How it is easy forgetable name? Somany Shibin's a...

A Happy Lonely Life

You may be wondering about to see this title. It is a new kind of life, now-a-days people are leading. Recently, I read an article about the new city life. The level of on-time marriage is inversly proportional to the late marriage. People are more interested to get date than get into a relation like marriage. Here comes the title, clearly. Loneliness It is exactly defined as, those who doesn't have any kind of relation, but have some hi-bye relation. The loneliness for a human is the feeling coming from inside. In older days, there is something to mean that the word itself. It can be happened anybody by the act of God. It may be by loosing his / her parents, and have no friends and bad relatives or vice versa. Or it may be living in a different place for any other purpose for a time period and have no communication with anybody. How come it be happy? The life is changing and growing fast with the new gadgets ( I can call it as / say that). The people in india ...

Some Thoughts

Everybody has some special day in their life. I think, no one has a life without a special day. Some times, they are not ready to express it or just hide it themselves. Somebody, is just opposite, blow up a party to everybody. Some times, it is for quite close relations. Anyway, the thoughts, the acts and all about that special day is always giving us happy. It may be anything to anybody. I do celebrates the special day. But, this special day is very special to me. My special day is my birthday. It is very special because, myself, my mum and one of my friend, are having same day, date, month for the birthday. I and my friend are same on the year too, I think the time is different. One more speciality associated to this date. The day, just before my birthday, is one of my special friend's birthday. It is all about a celebrative month. My very first celebration for my birthday was on 2004. The day, I really knew, the happiness, if we are sharing the ha...

An Open (Love) Letter

"Search your heart, search your soul. When you find me there, you will..............." That is what I did, searched my heart. For what, is my heart beating? Rolled back to my path, which I travelled, and it is right from the beginning. I felt somany times, I wanted to be a soul-mate of somebody. But who is the right person? I couldn't find anybody. Now I have a doubt, whether I found somebody or it is just a break-time on the journey. As I was something differ from others, I tried to keep my personality as its, and still. In school-days, some teachers pointed me as an example of good student. But wasn't me a bad student? Yes, I am. I could advise others on the right track; I kept my thoughts are closed ones and didn't try to reveal with anybody. I am not an open-hearted man. The first pledge and still I could keep as it is, is the pledge, which I took in front of God. That is, "I will never try/touch the alcohol and smoking." ...

Maa Tujhe Salaam

Lt. Saurabh Kalia of 4 JAT Regiment of the Indian Armylaid down his life at the young age of 22 for the nation while guarding thefrontiers at Kargil. His parents, indeed the Indian Army and nation itself,lost a dedicated, honest and brave son. He was the first officer to detect andinform about Pakistani intrusion. Pakistan captured him and his patrol partyof 5 brave men alive on May 15, 1999 from the Indian side of LOC. They were kept in captivity for three weeks and subjected to unprecedented brutal torture, evident from their bodies handed over by Pakistan Army on June 9, 1999. The Pakistanisindulged in dastardly acts of inflicting burns on the Indians with cigarettes, piercingtheir ears with hot rods, removing their eyes befor e! puncturing them and breakingmost of the bones and teeth. They even chopped off various limbs and private organsof the Indian soldiers besides inflicting unimaginable physical and mental torture. After 22 days of torture, the brave soldiers were ultimately s...