Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Outsourced

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NBC is set to air a show about Indian companies, called  "Outsourced".  Its content is hilarious and subsequently a kind of racist program.  Watch this trailer first and what you feel of it?  Click here.

According to NBC's official description, the set-in-India workplace series "centers on the all-American company Mid America Novelties whose call center has suddenly been outsourced to India and a manager, played by Ben Rappaport, is being transferred to India to run the operation.” Supposedly, the socio-economic aspects of exporting American jobs to India are not expected to be front and center story-wise. Instead, the series is billed as “the Midwest meets the exotic East in a hilarious culture clash”.

When you watch this preview, you can see first the call center manager drinks coffee in a toilet closet shaped mug.  What these Americans thinks?  Indians are eating their shit and drinking what they piss ?  It's really cruel to show like this.  If they don't like Indians, just leave it.  It's harassing in some other way.  Second, when the introduce session, miss-pronouncing the name of "Manmeit", on the contrary, they too miss-pronounce his name as Toad ( character name is Todd).  Another session, when he spells the letters, the caller suspecting the call reached to India and shouting over the phone to agent.  This guy says, it's not India, but in Detroit and it's the place of black people.  Again taking it as a racist act.  

What do you think, if a show like this aired in India and by making a American or American company as a comedy object?  Of course,  they won't be sit relax and enjoy it.  It will spread all over the medias and Obama may ask India to stop showing such things.  If not stopping, they may raise obstruction against India, until they seize this show.  That means, they can do anything against others, but others can't do.  It's hilarious.

There are lot of anti-India movements in America now.  These kind of shows just boost them up.  Some shows, just take it as fun but why don't they think out of the box or think from the other side?  Will they take it as just fun only, if any other nation do such things?  They won't.  With the name of anti-terrorism, these Americans done a body scanning of ex-Indian president, which shouldn't be allowed at all.  But they crossed all the limits and done those things.  I read some interesting quotes from Americans that, those days parents tell if you are not eating " Look at Asian countries, there are lot of people starving for food.  Don't waste and eat".  Now-a-days these parents tells "if you don't study, Indians will take over you".  They are still fearing Indians because with the knowledge, ability and many other things Indians are best than anybody.  So the fear about them had started.  But it shouldn't be destroyed by using these kind of cheap shows.  

Whatever they do, nothing will affect the business of India, as God with them.  But, it is shameful to the Indian community those are working and living in America to silently support these kind of shows.  I am not knowing the law side of these things.  But they must have the right to object against these kind of things.  They are not doing it; so it ashamed.   There are lot of comments are going around about this show.  Most are saying extremely offensive.  But none taking any finger movement to stop this.  Too bad.

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Parenting - a stage of life

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I have had a talk with one of my friend recently, who is father of 2 small kids.   At present they living in one of the English country and planning to move to an Asian country.  I was surprised about his decision and was asking, why like that?  His answer was revealing real worry of parent, who will be most concern about their children.  Present culture of English require, a boy need girl friend and girl need boy friend.  If you don't have that, people think that you came from some different planet.  Also premature sexual habits are increasing rapidly in this culture, which will be more troublesome for a parent as well as child.  Another fact he was saying, parents can't punish their own children.  If they punish and came to know by somebody, then social service will take them to their care home and wont give back to parents.  I was surprised with this statement.  As far as I know, most English countries protect people's privacy very strictly.  But a parent doesn't have right to punish his/her children?  Reasonable punishing is must at growing stage for good reason, when advising fails.  It will develop / lead a good character.  If parent doesn't have right for that, then why they trying to protect the privacy?

Having children can be very rewarding. You will share beautiful moments, laughter and love. But raising children in today's world is full of pitfalls and can leave parents over-stressed and just plain exhausted.  One of the hardest things about parenting is agreeing on how to be parents. You and your spouse have to agree to a reasonable degree on many issues, most especially discipline. Without such agreement life can be very confusing and inconsistent for the children.  Grandparents can offer enormous value by sharing the wisdom of long experience. After all, they have raised children before and most parents will want to believe they did a good job. For such advice to be valuable, however, it has to be delivered at the right time and in the right way.

The most excited stage of a married couple is right from the pregnancy stage till the growing up stage of their child.  When real parenting starts, it is a mixture of excitement as well as anxiety.  Then anxiety stage grows over excitement.  It starts right from the character development and never ends.  People says, if parents have good moral, children can adopt it.  But when you look at the surroundings, where the children grows it actually convince them than their parents.  Because, when child feels, he/she became grown up they start imitating somebody else than their parent.  Some picks good character, some pick bad.   It depends on the society and culture, where they grow up. 

When you look at our present world, there are no morals we can find.  The world is now running behind something else, which they themselves don't know.  Those good old days, both parents were part of the character build of a child.  Now, either of them at a time, but can't be together as they both meet at very rare time.  Parents running to build up the family and children, and the lack of time to give attention to their children making big differences in the characture build.  If you were 10% naughty at your child hood stage, then your child will be 70% naughty.  If you grasped things slowly, the new generation grasps it faster than anybody.  Regular fights/quarrels of parent in front of their children will make them to think that, their parents don't have time to take care of them.  We says, be careful on our words, once thrown, cannot take it back and may bite back you.  The same applies at the growing stage of child.  They adopts your words.  Just think, how children learning the language.  Learning of mother-tongue is a data transfer from  mouth to mouth.

Patience, that is the most important character for a parent need.  It must need till the end of your life.  Second, spend more time with your children and make it to be together with( if possible ) and answer your child's questions carefully.  Growing stage of a children have lots of questions in their mind.  They are anxious to know everything what they see, feel etc.  When you ready and open mind to talk to them, they are more happy to approach you.  If you are close minded when they approach with questions and you show uncomfortable, then they find someone else, which may then decide take control of their life.  Like a good friend, always be ready to answer their queries and help them when they stuck.  Ask them to learn, how they going with their life.  At the same stage, you must make them understand that how you grow up and what was the circumstances.  They must know the difficulties and troubles you faced to grow them up.  I believe, that will keep them driving that, "my parent suffering a lot to place me at good level and I shouldn't disappoint them". 

In short, parenting is a precious stage of a person, who leads a family life.  Good communication and patience is necessary to move forward.

Friday, September 10, 2010

Eid Mubarak - memory of Ijan

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Another Eid eve has gone.  I still re-collect the lively moments of my good friend Roshizal Ibrahim ( Ijan ).  He was active, jovial and friendly with everybody.  I used to advise him for his heavy smoking habit.  He always smiles at me, when I advise.  Whatever obstacles, his approach to them was very cool minded and with a smile.  Every time Hari Raya ( Ramzan ) Open House, he used to invite me and I used to be with him.  In fact, I never imagined it would have been our last open house.  He was the coordinator of our badminton team.  Very good and active player.  I was enjoying with them to play.  Every week he arrange at least one game for everybody.  The day before Michael Jackson passed away, was his last game with us.  They all played till early morning 2:00am.  He went off to home and slept off; never woke up.  It was shocking news to all of us.  I still wanted to re-collect him at this Ramzan time.  Ijan, you live in my heart forever.

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