Friday, May 11, 2007

Being Lonely

3:45 AM 1 Comments
Genesis 2:18
The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."

Bible says, the creator of man says, it is not good for the man to be alone. But, how did I feel, being alone is very good? The subject hitted in my mind, when I was having an ice tea at a huge shopping mall. I was sitting in a point, where I can see most of the rolling steps in that mall. I was watching everything and noticed, most of them are coming by couples, either with their girl friends or boy friends, otherwise rushing to buy something and going off. I might be the only person, went there to strand in the mall. For a moment, I thought about my friends, who are in another part of the world. But now I can't do anything.


Most of my friends always tells, "you are always happy, you don't have any problem." What they are meaning by happy. Just keeping the smile always in the face? No. All are always see the outerside of our face. Nobody, only true friends', see the inner side, the heart. In teanagers or those who doesn't have a girl-friend will always be happy. That is very true. But in otherside, those who don't have girl friend, will always be worry. Because all others have one, I don't. But in most cases, problems are their girl friends only. They may not be able to satisfy their parents,but they will run behind their girl friends to keep it always aside. But never realizes, it is only for the time period.


Which one is good? Being lonely or being with two? Obviously the second one. Because sharing a thing to another is very good behaviour. If it is with your loved ones. If you are alone, where you will share? Now-a-days, you must have the answer for this. Blog sites. Most of the lonely persons' mind is blogging out here. But, if it is a irresponsible thing, then? In Bible also, Jesus sent His disciples two by two. Why the need of two? Many reasons. If one has any problem, you will always have a helping hand nearby from your counterpart. If you are alone, you may not fulfill your journey. But, in the electronic world, being lonely would be somewhat better. Because, as I see, most of the girl-friend has only one aim. Squeezing their boy friend as much as possible. These poor fellows always get into trouble with this. As the study says, the account balance of a bachelor having a girl-friend is falling faster than the bachelor without girl friend. On the other side, the girl's account will always be steady. In this kind of scenario, being lonely is very good. But, even if you are alone, your inner mind will always be tempted for a shore, where you can relax.

Monday, May 7, 2007

My "First Night"

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It was not my first experience in sitting late nights for work. But, I had an experience of without sleeping for two consecutive days. That's me. If anything to do, I won't be sleep too. But, my "first night" didn't have any duties. It is only the training session to me to experience the term what is called "night shifts". I been to the whole nights for somany complicated works before too. But, this is actually, working here for others, those who are enjoying the days.

My first night shift started on a Saturday evening. Since, it was Saturday, our US counter part has only one test session, we didn't have to do anything much. Just to assist their test sessions. Our team quorrum was full, as usual. But, my team had only 3, out of that, I was on training session. Nothing, just to see what they are doing. Everybody was on the spirit to enjoy the night shift. Most of them came very early to take the handover from other part of the world. But the early preparation was only to enjoy the chatting sessions and phone calls. As usual timings, we taken over the charges from out colleagues on the other part of the world. Everybody checked their tools, nothing to do much. All machines are running perfectly. Customer is enjoying his holiday, here their supporters too enjoying their duty.


At all desktops, all types of messengers was on. Everybody is active in the chat sessions. Some guys, seriously studying for their certifications. Everybody's ear is engaged with the music, headphone. Around 1:30am, our test session was started with the customer. Meanwhile, I was watching others, from the first raw itself, the snoring starts. Somebody dreaming about sleeping, others already done that with sounds. Some guys watching movies / engaged with the online TV shows or playing online games. Our test session with the customer was lasted around 1 hour. It went off successfully. We too got free. Me and my colleague went out for a night walk. At groud floor, the security officers were too sleeping perfectly. Other teams are enjoying the smoking in the cold night. We came back with Nestle Milo. The taste of the chocolate forced me to had 3 cups in that night. Outside, we can see the traffic of the city, moving lights.

Without work, what to do? This was the question of my friend. I advised, be engaged by yourself. The world of opportunities are in front of you. Search sites, you may get a good knowledge, good friends, good counterpart and all. So, don't think, you don't have anything to do. So, he too started chatting and partly sleeping. Behid two of my colleagues sleeping full fledged. It seems, they have duty in the morning too. The whole night gone through perfectly. Finally, I had to awaken some of my colleagues to handover their duty to the colleagues to the next shifts. As soon as I reached home, I was feeling sleepy. To take the energy for coming up nights.........

Wednesday, May 2, 2007

50 Years of Independene, a thought.

9:58 AM 0 Comments
It is my first visit/trip to outside India. We, Indians crossed the 50 years of independence almost 10 years ago. Now, when I landed this new country, Malaysia, the country is celebrating its 50th year of independence this year. I was just comparing the prosperities with my country. what I have and what they have? What we earned with this 50years of experience, and what they earned?

The prosperity of Malaysia, is quite amazing. You can see it from when u lands here. In the mean time, what about India? Nothing. We got somany educated people. But, is there any prosperity with that education? I will say, no. I came here to work as Technical consultant. But, the only plus point is, in abroad, Indians are well known for the Technical. Everybody acknowledges that. So, the demand for Indians are higher too. But, with the education, what India got? Nothing. Somany corrupted politicians and very tricky peoples. Here, I could see, some law and order. But, in India, laws are there, but no Order. Everybody bending the law for their own prosperous. People are trying to make money, without working. Everybody needs money however, but don't want to work at all. Here, I didn't find any persons, who are sitting idle. Everybody works together and they all have one thought in mind, "working for our prosperity". This thought can make a prosperous nation. Malaysia, got independent on 31st August 1957. But the progress of the countryis very fast than any other country. Low cost living and good culture to accommodate too.

As like everywhere, crime in cities are more than other places. The same thing is here too. But, compare to Indian metro cities, crime in Kuala Lumpur is very very less. Many metro cities are worried about the plastic pollution. All are making by people only. Here, everywhere plastics using. But, they are dropping their rubbishes in the dustbin, even in public places. But, in India, wherever u sits, that is the place to keep ur rubbishes. And the country is ready to preserve forests too. So, natural things are here. In Mumbai or Delhi, u can't even heard the voices of sparrows and birds. You might be familiar with crow instead. Here, many beautiful birds u can see, in the middle of the city. Everywhere, garden and keeping trees. So, naturally the rains and natural things are keeping. No dust in the roads. People can sit anywhere, even don't want to polish your shoes too. Very convenient transportation system too. Nobody will differ you with the name of your country, region, language and the nature of skin. All this rubbishes can see in India. Here, people thinks, everybody is equal, whether it foriegner or native.

Here, people don't have that much education like Indians, but they have a good mind to adopt others and to work for their nations. This is the main thing of the prosperity of the country.

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