Scattered thoughts

     There will be one or more persons in your life, whom you like to sit with for a few moments, without telling anything.  Their presence, by virtual or physical, make you so much happier and give you comfort in all the sense.  But there will be few people, you love to be with them, but when they near you really think, they shouldn't be nearby.  Why does we (or I?) feel like that?  Have you ever felt like these?  The question rolling in my mind for years.  But no clear answer.  A fabricated words will not have any perfection.  When it falls from the heart, there is perfection. 

     There are two reasons, I feel.  It's love or to be loved and possess.  Possessiveness and love are different.  Possessiveness can tell as an extremity of love.  Isn't really love? Answer can be yes or no.  When you love somebody with open heart you love to be with them and the presence will change you.  In fact the other person should have similar love.  But when you love someone and the other is so possessive on you, then the second action will happen.  That is you love to be with them, when they far away; but when they near you think, they shouldn't be near.  Because, for the other person, there is no one other than you.  But for you, you are not the one dedicated for ( not for all purpose ) a single person.  You think your love is a gift from God and to be shared.  But the other thinks, it is only for them and it shouldn't be shared.  This is where the real pain of possessiveness start. 

     Do you think, your skills are gift from God?  Do you think, the ability you have to love other, without expecting anything, is a gift from God?  Do you think, your ability to be shared to others who don't have that kind?  If yes, then you are on the right track. If no you are on self possessiveness. 

     Have you ever been a victim of possessiveness?  I would say, most of the people will have. Those who married, can understand their wife is so possessiveness on you and vice-versa.  But that is very common.  But if someone else come to your life and taking possessiveness, then you are in trouble. You shouldn't hurt them, but take it out very carefully.  Otherwise, they may spoil your life.

     Friends are necessary.  But friendship shouldn't spoil your life.  It is another kind of love; use it wisely to lead a right life.  Let's work for a better tomorrow and for a lovely world.