Bible says, the creator of man says, it is not good for the man to be alone. But, how did I feel, being alone is very good? The subject hitted in my mind, when I was having an ice tea at a huge shopping mall. I was sitting in a point, where I can see most of the rolling steps in that mall. I was watching everything and noticed, most of them are coming by couples, either with their girl friends or boy friends, otherwise rushing to buy something and going off. I might be the only person, went there to strand in the mall. For a moment, I thought about my friends, who are in another part of the world. But now I can't do anything.
Most of my friends always tells, "you are always happy, you don't have any problem." What they are meaning by happy. Just keeping the smile always in the face? No. All are always see the outerside of our face. Nobody, only true friends', see the inner side, the heart. In teanagers or those who doesn't have a girl-friend will always be happy. That is very true. But in otherside, those who don't have girl friend, will always be worry. Because all others have one, I don't. But in most cases, problems are their girl friends only. They may not be able to satisfy their parents,but they will run behind their girl friends to keep it always aside. But never realizes, it is only for the time period.
Which one is good? Being lonely or being with two? Obviously the second one. Because sharing a thing to another is very good behaviour. If it is with your loved ones. If you are alone, where you will share? Now-a-days, you must have the answer for this. Blog sites. Most of the lonely persons' mind is blogging out here. But, if it is a irresponsible thing, then? In Bible also, Jesus sent His disciples two by two. Why the need of two? Many reasons. If one has any problem, you will always have a helping hand nearby from your counterpart. If you are alone, you may not fulfill your journey. But, in the electronic world, being lonely would be somewhat better. Because, as I see, most of the girl-friend has only one aim. Squeezing their boy friend as much as possible. These poor fellows always get into trouble with this. As the study says, the account balance of a bachelor having a girl-friend is falling faster than the bachelor without girl friend. On the other side, the girl's account will always be steady. In this kind of scenario, being lonely is very good. But, even if you are alone, your inner mind will always be tempted for a shore, where you can relax.
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sometimes lonliness helps also it gives time to think abt urself without being disturbed. ya all need a company,not necessary to be a girlfriend or boyfriend but a person who has ears ready to hear u & heart to understand ur feeling & who can be with u always even if he is not physically present with u.
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