Friendship Day - Some Thoughts

What do you mean by a friend?

It can be defined in many ways. That is depends on person by person. But a friend is a aperson who helps you in your all needs and understand you well. A true friend never expect anything returns. Friends are always with us in all situations.

Why do we need a friend?

We have parents to be loved. We have relatives, brothers, sisters and so on to be loved. Then what is the role of a friend in life? The basic of friendshop resides in love. And this basic is starting from our own home only. As we growing we are seeing, learning, understanding many things. The understand creats many doubts. All our doubts can't be cleared by our parents, brother or sisters etc. And some time, we can't talk openly all things/matters to them also. Such kind of situationis, the importance of a friend is comes up. A good friend uderstands you and clear your doubts and guide you in a right direction.

Can a friend be a lover or vice versa?

The answer is many or may not be. But a lover can't be a friend. Because it depends on the each ones sex and depends on the deepness of friendship. The everlasting love starts always from friendship. I have a true friend. How we met and the relation continues is a big story. Even if we are in the long distance, we understood each other perfectly. The way keeping our friendship, misuderstood many people, even her relatives. Everybody told me, I must have loved her. Yeah, I do, but I put a limit. If you are putting a limit to everything and decides not to cross that limit, then friendship will never becomes a love. But this need, the strong mind.

Types of friends

Friends can be many types. In general I says, it is 5 types.
a). Hi-bye friends. b)Friends. c)Flirting friends. d)Best friends and the final one is e) True friends.

a)Hi-bye friends :-

These types are only keeps the relations, whenever they sees each other. Just says, hi how are you, and when we pass them, they forget about us.

b)Friends :-

Any known persons can be called as friends. In general conversation, when we introduce a person to others, we usually use this word,"it is my friend". Because, no other word will match their.

c)Flirting friends:-

This is the special type. The kind of peoples' keep in touch with others and their main intention is always to be flirted. They tries every option to flirt their friends. After a stage, they may avoid the person, who flirts, or may continue as their prey.

d)Best friends:-

This is a group, where we can share eveything to them. These are trustworthy peoples. But, some best friends' are only one way kind, they only hears them and may not advise them. But tries to keep the touch with their friends.

e)True friend:-

This is the ultimate group. They are really meant the word "True Friend". They can understand you, from the long distance, from your silence, from your body language. Even through telecon, they understands, how much you improved or decreased your level, how much you changed. These are a type of Best friends', but they are best of best friends. They keep intimating, finding the solutions to your problems and helps you to keep smile always.

Do we need to celebrate a special day for friends?

To me, there is no need to that. Because everyday I am happy about my friends, because, God give me "precious diamonds". I am proud of them. Some says, there is no thanks, no sorry between friends. But we have to keep this on practice with them. Otherwise, we will forget the basic respects to others.