Saturday, September 10, 2005

Jealous

Three days back, when I was walking to office, I just think about this subject and planned to write a blog.
Jealous -- a dangerous thing, that hide every humans mind. Sometimes it is coming out without any force, sometimes we made it. Let's analyse the jealous in a human life cycle.
We all believed that, childrens are reflecting the characters of God. That was in old days. Now they are also having jealous. I am taking an example of my nephew. He is only 1 year old. After a year of his birth, when I was seeing him very first time, he was refused to come and play with me. When his cousine, she is 4 months younger than him, came to my hand, then he started to cry and pulled me to take him on other hand. If you are thinking, this is the nature of childrens, then you got wrong. After he came to my right hand. He saw, his cousine was on other hand. He started to screaming and pulling her down from my hand. This is a kind of jealous, that can be cured by good parenting.
When the childrens are on growing up, the jealous are injecting by their parents. For example, school going childrens, parents are much affected their life. If the children's are lag behind studies and their friends' are scoring higher marks on the exams, then this parents are starting to push thier children and this is a type of injection. If it is increasing badly, then the children decide to leave the friendship with anybody and thus he leads a lonly life. It will more trouble on his / her life. The next symptom of this is, when these kids are participating a program. These time, the injection of jealous might increase, because, the parents are so concern about their kids.
Upto the above level, the jealous are injecting or creating by the presence of thier parents' behaviour.
When they are in the teenage or college going, the jealous, is developing themselves. It is so because, his or her colleague is either so beauty or having a good friends circle. The general kind of jealous is developing in a teenage boy is in this way. If his friend is cute looking and having somany girl friends' or the girls are loving to talk to him, the jealous is growing there. But the same time jealous is starting in a girl is another way. If her friend having long hair or looks so beauty or having better options than her, there it starts. She always looks her friend so jealouly, comparatively a boy. Becasue, boys are trying to make improve on their characters.
But in the matured age, the jealous are growing in the different kind of matters. Mainly it will be because of money or the position, who is having in the community.
All these increasing of jealous world will ruin the growth of good future of the childrens.

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