What youth wants ?

Youth, the golden days of every person's life, are plentiful, if it is spending wisely. The quest about the knowledge and quaint energetic lifestyles are showing in these period. The term of a youth life is starting at the age of 14 and it lasts upto 35. We can divide this period into many ranges with it behaviour. I would like to divide the life-time of a person (considering only start and end of youth life) as follows. 1) 10 - 14:- Pre-stage of youth 2) 14 - 35: - Actual youth life 3) 35 - 45 :- Post youth life 4) 50 and above :- Matured life.

1) 10 - 14:- Pre-stage : This is an important period, and any incidents in this life period can affect or change the future life of a person. Childrens in this age range are commonly having the grasping power and whatever they seen, are trying to understand. The mind is starting to set at this age and the power of remembrance are growing. With the present situation of a family life, childrens are starting to find new things than from the circle of family. The behaviour of yelders could affect and they shows keen interest to understand teh words and actions of thier yelders. But the structure of a bounded family controls them. The older days, ie. before 1990's, childrens are entirely not under controls of the yelders in the community / family. Now, it's a micro structure of the family, and the parents are expecting they are more concern about their childrens. As much they expecting, the distance between them and their children are increasing. If parents can put a limit and can controls their actions in this range can guide their childrens to a good future.

2) 14 - 35: Actual youth life starts here. This age range again we can divide according to their behaviour.

a) 14 - 20:- The physical and sexual life is changing here. Childrens are more interest to know about what is happening their physical structure of the body. They even try to start experiments. The sexual changes happening in boys are they understanding from the books and magazines, where girls are getting proper guidance from their parents. A helathy family can clear the doubts of their children and can guide them. Because of the shyness, boys are starting the experiments for self studying through books and magazines. They are even not ready to discuss with their friends. The erotic sense are at the highest of its level along with the curiosity. Misguidance are happening here.

Presently, all the medias are exposing sex as the integral part, but with its vulgar level. Medias like, internet and TV channels are booming with the madness of sex and the childrens are misguiding and tehyare ready to imitate for their knowledge. Older days, the life of the parents guides their children, where as now medias are more than parents in picture. So childrens are shying to ask and clear doubts to parents. If they asked, the parents can't answer them. What the medias are trying to reveal are exposing much. So the childrens are taking taking the wrong advice from it and misguided.

Secondly the behaviour of the childrens are different at this stage. Most of them are in a search of love. This all are because of the communication gap in the family. It makes big mistakes. The day dremings and the self thoughts are working in this stage. Good parents are controlling their childrens by scolding and advicing them. But, this age groups are mostly not consider it for the right way. So they starts to analyze, what they are getting from their parents. It leads or diverts their future life, unless they are not getting the proper guidennce. Sometimes, they get proper answer sometimes not. Money also palys big role in these teenagers life. As I stated earlier, most of them are attracted with the TV channels. The demand of money will arise and they are trying to be the same with their friends, without considering the situations at home. The factors which are changing a teenagers life are money, media and the family structure.

b) 21 - 25: We can say, the turning point of a man's life is this age range. But the actual turning point is coming, only when he is getting married. The ambitious, they planned in the 14 - 20 life time may change in this age. Somany factors are palying their life. Boys are on the track to achieve money, the same aim to the girls, whoever living at cities. But those at villages are not in such kind of habit. They are trying to be proud of themselves and others. But the opposite sex attraction are playing a big role. Some of them are on the aimless track, very rare having the specific aim and they are on the way to achieve it. Considering boys, they all will be far from their families. So, they are leading an uncontrol life. Expenses on their life are increasing and they will find the way to make the money for it. So, whatever they are getting from one hand, are loosing through another hand. A wise man can trouble the people in this age range, very easily. Also, these age rangers are ready to do anything, without considering the actions and reactions.

c)25 - 35: Somewhat maturity has come here. Most of them are starting to think about their family, if they married or think about their marriage and their future wife. Here also, the presence of media plays big role. Now-a-days, all the medias are giving limitless exposing to the sexual life. Take a look at the movies, ads and just have a look on your present life circumstances. The business are shining with the glittering of sex. It's like, business without sex is big zero. Gaining money, loosing the value of life. This agenda, the youngsters are very attractive. Over exposure and the importance to sex are making a mad generation. This madness is like an epidemic.

3) 35 - 45 :- Post youth life. The experience and the sweet memories of their energetic youth life are giving the profit here. The reactions are starting. It may expected or not, but they struggles here to lead the life. I am not ready to say much on this and the next age range. It all are the impacts.

4) 50 and above :- Matured life. It believes the people are matured in this age. But, most of them are showing they are still energetic and ready to do anything like their teenage. The mental power plays a big role over here. For an healthy life, the mind should be healthy. Here, your life style should be moral to everybody. People will watch you entirely and even your kids are on look to you, what you are doing and what not.

Overall, the life style of the present generation is very far away from the past. Going to future, it is all are making no sense and would make more trouble. Youths are on the way to find the love. But they never realize the real love they are still getting from their parents. The concepts of the friendships are also changed. Nobody can show a girl as his girl friend or a boy as his boy friend. Nobody undestands the real meaning of the friend. Everything are flying around through cards and words, but never understand the meaning. The present city life makes boys to take advantage from their girl friend, through a sexual relation. Youths are changing their "friends" like pen. After taking the benefits, they never understand the value that they used. Value less life are leading and is guiding by media. There is no role can do by their parents or the parents are not ready to just have look into their childrens life, unless they are not into trouble. All that youth wants, money and muscle power, which they believe can make or take everything.