Today I learned one of my ex-colleague ( since, I worked with many companies, hope very few may recognize only who is this girl ) got married recently with her boyfriend. It was not surprise news at all in this current world/culture. But if you know the girl in one shot, it will be surprise news.

In her first outlook, she is the master brained girl of flirting. Whoever, good looking single man, she meets try to start flirt with them. She is very beautiful, small in height and weight. Though she was working with me, I met her accidentally and she tried her flirt on me too.

What if you meet a girl, who is smart in flirt? You may flirt with her, as long as one of you make a full stop to this. There are two kinds of flirting girls. First group's aim is only to enjoy the life before marriage and leave all of their boy friends and marry one, their parents choose ( in Indian tradition, parents finds the girl/boy for their son/daughter). Second group is the real survivors. They flirts to get their good life partners.

I had a friend, whom I met once I was on duty in her company. All of her colleagues that time warned me, never ever make any kind of friendship with her. She is dangerous. But, I didn't care that, because I know, I may change their life style or may help them in some other way. Though she left her original job and found different, we both were in touch and often meets. Every weekends she ran away to some distant places, but only myself knew where she goes, but nobody knew for what she goes. I asked many times, she kept quiet. After few months, we became busy in our work life, and the gap between us increased such a way, didn't know she went back her home town and got married. When her marriage fixed, she had cut off all her past relationship because, she wanted a peaceful life with her partner. I knew about her family background earlier and she comes under the first category of group.

This girl, I felt earlier, she is only flirting as time-pass like my friend. But, I started thinking something, once when I asked her about her family. She hasn't shown any interest to tell about her family. There I suspected something and guessed there must be some problems. Today I knew that she has 4 sisters, father passed away few years back and financially very pathetic.

In Indian culture, parents find the boy for their daughters and girl's parents must have good financial aid to conduct the marriage. Otherwise it is terrible for them. For this girl, father passed away and financially too unstable, I realized her flirting is for her survival. Since she is smart and intelligent, she started flirting to find her life partner, who shall be always with her. Yes, she won on her selection. I guess, she may have flirted with huge number of boys. I really appreciate the good mind of her husband, whom knows about his wife very much and accepted her.

If you view her life as all public does, you says she is very bad person. In her good age, enjoyed much and flirted with most of the boys. You will say this, because you are either not interested to learn her life or you don't know anything about her. If you change your view and try to find, why she does this, you will really appreciate her. As I know, though she fixed this man ( husband ) as permanent, she had huge list ready for next, if he leave her forever. Because, she knew the struggles and pain of her family, how her mother suffering with the four girls to get them married. Now, the future is in her hand. Though she is the younger in that family, hope she may take initiative to find a person for her sister.

This is the highly riskiest game of survival. If you are not ready to take the risk in your life, there is no survival. I really appreciate her courage and intelligence and praying God to give her all good in the life.

Don't wonder about the title. It is the real fact, but hiding by major countries. After the Mumbai attack, it was very very clear about the black hands of Pakistan and how they are encouraging terrorism. US taken some interest on that incident, only because some Americans died on it. They became the real prey of the very old terrorism. They had been the part of the investigation, not to show their support to India, but to do their formalities, since their citizens died.

After the Mumbai incident, many times Pakistan played out and was making the point, India is encouraging terrorism. But all other countries found clearly, it is the mistake of Pakistan and they are reaping the terrorism and they are growing it on in their own soil. Taliban incidents too very clear on this. What is the use? Still US supporting them. They wanted to shrink the power of India through encouraging the terrorism in Pakistan.

Recent Bangladesh incident report too revealed ISI, the secret agency of Pakistan, had played out a major role on this. Now, the surroundings of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Sri Lanka is facing the trouble of terrorism or encouraging. And these all growing the terrorists to destroy India. This is what Americans wants.

Now the sad incidents over Sri Lankan Cricketers. Their local police warned earlier itself to govt about this plan, but govt not encouraged. Also, it is notable the comments of ICC Match Referee. He has commented that, when the gun fire started all Policemen escaped without shooting to them. There can't be seen any of the Policemen. Also, after the shoot out, gun men walked as normally and went by motor bikes with their weapon. Nobody has stopped them.

Also, Last week Police is also warned that Karachi is going to capture by Taliban. If Karachi is going to capture by Taliban, then India will mostly suffer. Because, by sea it is hardly 3hrs journey on speed boat to reach Mumbai or other major border cities of India. It will be too crucial then for India. Why India is not attacking Pakistan? Because, if India attacked, it is very easy for all to condemn and they all can easily be ban India from all kind of business, that will generate or develop some drastic situations and which may even go up to the extent of another growth of a terrorism. But why the organization like UN and ASEAN, G5 or other things not taking any action on this country, in which all the terrorists are growing as they wish ?

If US says, they are not encouraging terrorism, then why they reserved some billion dollars in their budget for the weapon allowance for Pakistan? Why they are not taking any initiative to stop all trading or ban the country? US were too furious to ban Iraq, Iran and other such countries of their "war on terrorism" program. Why they are not taking any initiative on this? Whatever the weapon they are giving Pakistan, it is straight away going to terrorists. It is only some beginning. There are something more to come. The plan of all dirty criminals are not yet come out.

What is in your mind, when somebody says, "it's holiday time for me or I am on vacation"? Definitely, you feels, can sleep for the whole day or long time. No need to do anything or get up early and get ready to office or school. A change in our regular routine work. Ah? Yeah, it is what meant to the word "Holiday" or "Vacation" for the most working people or children. So, what if you are staying away from your family, and is a responsible person to your family? If you get a long leave for your "Holiday" or "Vacation", definitely your colleagues will be more envy on you. It is not because, you are a bad guy or gal, it is because, you are going for a long long leave.

As I said earlier, if you are staying away from your home and responsible person to your family and getting a holiday or vacation to back to your home, what it is exactly meaning? It is only an escape from your regular routine work. Isn't it? Yeah, definitely. You are just escaping from your work and going to help your parents. You might not have time to sit idle for a moment. Before going itself, you will be planning your program. But it will be upside down, if your parents planned something for you. Again, moody days and trying to cop-up with that one. By the time, you will be running out of time. You will just think, I am back to my home after so many months or years. Just wanted to sit with my parents and to get their love. You may find time to visit your friends and relatives, but you may miss most of them, because they will be either on their routine or out of town like you. Then you will be just going to see the changes of your home town.

Overall, a "Holiday" or "Vacation" for a person staying away from their home is definitely not a holiday. It is just an escape. But, your colleagues will still be envy, because, you don't need to take the tension of work. Don't need to get scold from your boss. Don't need to worry about "SLA", the ghost of your work. But they never knows, what is your situation, when you are away to your home.

It will definitely be different, if you are going to enjoy with your friends as "Holiday" or "Vacation". Also will be different, if you and your family going for a trip on your "Holiday". But, it will definitely not a holiday, if you are back to home after a long time.

What ever it is or will be, the "Holiday" is really a refresher of your life. You are shuffling your regular schedule and getting a fresh mind and lots of lovely moments to run your life till you visit them. That is what a holiday does on you. Whether you are be with your family and busy with your family programs, holiday or vacation refreshes your mind and making you to accommodate new things and building you to think new ideas. Let's enjoy our holiday or vacation and make it happen at least once in every 3 months.

It's another double play by US government. After the Mumbai attack by Pakistani militants, US government said in the front end, Paksitan is still enriching the cross border terrorism and its secret service agency, ISI trains the terrorists. Even, they have kept quite, when Pakistan announced, they have come out with an agreement with Taliban militants to cease fire. Taliban, a notorious terrorist group, which is still has great deal with ISI.

Today, US govt released million dollars of money to Pakistan to enrich their militaries, in the name of "war against terrorism". What is this showing? It is a clear picture of dual face. They are saying, they are peace keepers, but still they wanted to keep peaceless in the south asia. Especially, they wanted to break the strong economy of India, which is more stronger, even the recession hits around the world.

To enrich this, today Pakistan military announced that, there is no evidence for the Mumbai terrorists travelled through the sea. It is another clear picture that, Pakistan is still encouraging terrorism. How many terrorist camps they shutdown as of now? It seems, it is growing much better than ever now. Within a short while number of camps are grown up to train people against India. They are choosing poor young men and attracting them using money. But what they gets finally? The darkness of life or death. They are creating human beasts.

Do you think, these things are going to end? Never. The situations will go worst day by day only. The word peace will be swipe over from dictionary, when people fights for money and try to keep thier level in the public. There won't be any peace to anybody anymore. Countries will split, people will fight against themselves. US, they are trying to play as world police and making peaceless world. They never kept reserve money as gold stock and pulled all world into recession. Still all other worlds depends on it. There is a day will come to end of their era.

After the "notorious" Mumbai blast, I have expressed my concern over the black hands of United States through an article ( Read it on Blogger / Multiply). Now, the latest news revealed by some army officers are underlined my doubts. Read the news came out in the paper; click here.

If you know very clear about Indian History, a man with common sense can understand very easily, there are some external power, which plays in between India and Pakistan to be enemies forever. Prior to 1947, there was only India and no Pakistan. Pakistan is a broken arm of India from the midnight of August 14,1947. Even British don't want to interfere much in between Pakistan and India, since they are very clear about the history. Now, the third rate politics are being played by US and their agencies to keep the tensions in the area forever for their benefits. They wanted South Asia become a "mess" so that any American's can play on it, whenever they wants. But, the law and justice of God will never ever leave them in peaceful mind.

Though Obama taken charge from Bush few days ago, India never said any words about the warm welcome messages of Obama ("US is not enemy of India"). As everybody knows, Bush administration was the worst administration in the US history. But, Obama is just a child and everybody looking into him, how is going to penetrate the globe with his intelligence. But, inside Washington there are lots of big guns, whom can penetrate Obama's order very easily. Everybody wants India and Pakistan to be enemy forever. If both became friendly, nobody can stop them. It is very known truth.

World is suffering now with economic crisis and the India is the only one country has very less impact of world economic crisis. And it is highly predicted that, India will be very very strong in global economy by 2020. The blasts, terrorism and other things sponsoring by agencies like ISI by the support of CIA and others, wanted to demolish the unity of Indians. Is that a single word to tumble upside down with some crook-minded people? It's very hard to break the unity of people mind. So, they are now playing from the bottom line. A split within the country by the people. A blue-print of the USSR split. Let's see, what's God's plan. It's clearly mentioned in bible that everybody will fight for their power and countries will split, religions will fight.