Manners

    A big change starts from a person to a group to a community and to the nation so on.  For each and everything the factor of a change, whether it is good or bad, starts from a single person or group of people.  Let me tell you an incident here.  I was reaching to a bus stop.  There were few passengers, whom I know, standing and formed a queue and waiting for the bus.  There were some people scattered around the area.  A lady was standing little far from this place and was part of that scattered people.  After a while the queue starts growing.  This lady, slowly moved towards the line and starts to stand outside of the line, after 3rd person from the head.  Some people who came very late saw this lady stands out and starting queuing behind her.  The result there were 2 queues with single head and the opportunity to those who came first were lost.  Here, the bad manner or behavior of that lady caused the trouble.
   
    Another incident; a busy, crowded town.  Very hard to find parking places.  A black BMW, drove by a lady driver, was looking for parking.  Middle of the road, there is a big tree and having marking on road indicates there 2 or 3 roads joining together.  This lady went two rounds and didn't find parking, slowly moved her car to the middle of the road and parked at the sign or marking on the road.  Those who came later saw this parking, and started parking in front of that car.  What was the result.  Imagine, that unauthorized parking caused chaos and it became like a divider on the road.
   
    As old people or proverb says, home is the first school for each people.  But now-a-days, there is no good teacher in this school.  Either parents are afraid of their children or they let them to choose their own way to live or they do not have time to look after their children.  For everything they need a maid and children never get the parental love.  So they seek better relationship out of their home and get into troubles.  Outcome of this situation creates bad community, bad people.  When parent realized their children manners or behavior it will be too late for them to act. 
   
    One of the reason I could say for this situation is, run behind money.  If you read papers, these are days of scams.  Mostly what type?  Money scam.  If it is sexual scam, but the ultimate aim behind it will be the money, which is devil.  I won't say you don't need money.  Money is necessary; but the unnecessary way to make money creates troubles and the makes unbalance of life.  Now-a-days people want to make money, without making efforts.  The best example I could say, chain marketing.  Lots of people attracts and becoming prey of this chain marketing.  When the agent explains, you will imagine, within a month or more you could earn so much money without making much efforts.  But ultimately you need to work for it.  Who is winning at the end, not you.  The brain behind this chain marketing wins.  Government, they never make a rule to stop or collect tax from this extra income. What if you use that effort to make benefit of your life and the community?  Yes, if you think that way, you could make real change to the world.
   
    For parents: become good teachers at your school and for children, run for truth and find for good manners.  Money is not the solution for all.